love...

definition of love:
fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.


"...without you, i am complete,
i know ultimately, i am alone,
i can live without you...
you don't make life worth living,
you just add onto the worth of life
that is already worth living...
you don't create my self-esttem,
you only add onto it...
you are not my life,
i have my own...
i love you because it's a decision
i have made on my own...
because you give me space
to pursue my individual choice
and are compassionately attentive
to any threat that i fell...
coz you don't control me or even try to,
you allow me that change that i need
and would not even try to change me..."