in the span ouf our lives, we should be so lucky to have someone who will never let us go...
someone who'll love us even more...and someone who'll cherish us for the rest of our lives...
-lessons of love could bring us so much pain
i guess destiny just lets us meet only a few people that come in and out of our lives...and those times might be the most unforgettable ones.
experience teaches us lessons in this insane world of "love"
the more we've been hurt, the more we gain knowledge and growth...
but one this is for sure...we'll know how to get up again onve we fall...
don't be afraid to give yourself a chance to love again...
don't look for qualities from your past love in someone new...we're all different people and we have different personalities. but who knows?!??! there is so much more you can see in someone new that you may never have even thought of.
ending relationships does not mean it's the end of a story in a book... but it's the beginning of a new chapter in your life!
"love" should never be kept as a promise with a word such as "forever"
it's not just a work that is easy to say...it's also a place that you need to get to...
-actions speak louder than words.
now as i sit down in front of my computer, my mind spinning...bored, lack of sleep...listening to the radio...playing an old school song...
"and it's telling me IT MIGHT BE YOU, all of my life..."
these lines keep circling like butterflies in my head, wondering who might be the love of our lives...
no one could tell...no one knows
these are just some of the situations in "love". i can't say i'm an expert in all these shits about love...i've just learned from alot...and somehow i'll cherish these lessons that left the scars from my last...lessons that will teach me over and over again.
i guess you could say it is truly the matter of the choices we make in our lives...
love is feeling like your in heaven, but it can also hurt like hell. but one thing is for sure, you'll learn to let go and love someone else more than you ever did before. this time it might be extra special. don't live like with regret.
-take chances, make mistakes...
9/18/08
love failures...why 2/3
sometimes you feel that you've given all you've got to give and still it's not enough. still it doesn't work...right? or you don't receive anything in return.
-it's the matter of giving, don't assume that you'll receive much more of what you expect.
then what if you're a two-timer, when you can't choose one over the other. you love "A" but "B" has certain qualities and you can tell that the two of you are sooo compatible.
-it's very hard to choose, right?!?!??!
well, grow up!!!
shit...now you're being selfish!
oh well, you've gotta choose just one person and learn to accept the fact that "3 is always a crowd!"
then there are days when you start thinking about your ex... reminiscing on the good old times that you've shared together. somehow you miss him/her...??? and somehow there's emptiness inside of you that you just can't stop. you're thinking on whether or not you're gonna do anything about it. because maybe...just maybe he/she's already happy in the arms of someone else.
how about the people that are hurt or that have just lost all faith? with absolutely no idea why they've been hurt...and maybe still trying to figure out what's the reason for their breakup...
we usually tend to smile...
-but behind the curtains...we're dying
you end up drinking with the friends, going out of town...trying to do something to relieve yourself for awhile.
anyweiz...don't worry, there's someone out there who'll be the one to ease your pain. just widen up your eyes...or you could just use your high resolutions reading glasses. lolz
you'll never know,...the person sitting next to you on the must bight be the one who you'll spend the rest of your life with...hmmm
maybe sooner or later... i'm sire they'll realize what they've lost and found.
of well, too bad ;) regret is always in the end...
it's not your loss...it's THEIRS
there's still so many out there...
--we never really know what we've got until it's gone...
and we never thought that the person we loved the most could be the one who hurts us the most...
ok, let's just put it this way...
you won't get hurt if you don't love...
you got hurt because you did love...
sometimes, we prefer to be hurt...?!!?!?
- right?!!?!?
-it's the matter of giving, don't assume that you'll receive much more of what you expect.
then what if you're a two-timer, when you can't choose one over the other. you love "A" but "B" has certain qualities and you can tell that the two of you are sooo compatible.
-it's very hard to choose, right?!?!??!
well, grow up!!!
shit...now you're being selfish!
oh well, you've gotta choose just one person and learn to accept the fact that "3 is always a crowd!"
then there are days when you start thinking about your ex... reminiscing on the good old times that you've shared together. somehow you miss him/her...??? and somehow there's emptiness inside of you that you just can't stop. you're thinking on whether or not you're gonna do anything about it. because maybe...just maybe he/she's already happy in the arms of someone else.
how about the people that are hurt or that have just lost all faith? with absolutely no idea why they've been hurt...and maybe still trying to figure out what's the reason for their breakup...
we usually tend to smile...
-but behind the curtains...we're dying
you end up drinking with the friends, going out of town...trying to do something to relieve yourself for awhile.
anyweiz...don't worry, there's someone out there who'll be the one to ease your pain. just widen up your eyes...or you could just use your high resolutions reading glasses. lolz
you'll never know,...the person sitting next to you on the must bight be the one who you'll spend the rest of your life with...hmmm
maybe sooner or later... i'm sire they'll realize what they've lost and found.
of well, too bad ;) regret is always in the end...
it's not your loss...it's THEIRS
there's still so many out there...
--we never really know what we've got until it's gone...
and we never thought that the person we loved the most could be the one who hurts us the most...
ok, let's just put it this way...
you won't get hurt if you don't love...
you got hurt because you did love...
sometimes, we prefer to be hurt...?!!?!?
- right?!!?!?
9/17/08
love failures...why 1/3
this was originally created 12/2003
why is there always a point in one's life when they think twice? - afraid that you might make the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life.
have you ever felt that you've been so obsessed with someone and yet we call it crazy? but we've never realized how stupid we have become until we felt that we've been!!!
and how come after all the shit that we're been through - someone hurts you like no other hurt you've felt before, still you say "i still love him/her!" ...Shit!
sometimes we get confused on whether or not we should listen to our mind or our heart.
-they say that love conquers all ...yeah right!
sometimes, you feel that you love someone, but that person loves someone else. or you fell for your friend but you're too afraid to let it show because you fear rejection.
dialogue in the movie My Best Friend's Wedding...
- "if you love someone, say it... you say it right then... out LOUD... or the moment just passes you by..."
there are some situations when there is someone in your life and you could say that he/she is the one and you think that you really love them. but the time comes in that relationship where you've lost your trust in them. you gave it all to them in the beginning, and found out that this whole time, they've been cheating on you. i know...it HURTS!!!
of course you give them another chance, but you can't help but think that they might do this to you again. but you hear these promises and you just hope for the best.
but then...what if he/she broke these promises the second time around?!!?!?
i don't know...
all i can say is, we do crazy shit for the one we love.
-it's really hard to trust someone again once you've lost it... i guess it just takes time.
what about the situations where you want to break up with someone? but there's something holding you back, like you're afraid of hurting that person but at the same time afraid of hurting yourself and later regretting that you did it.
sometimes, we can't blame ourselves for ending a relationship. other people might think that you are such a horrible person and it was easy for...umm hello... i don't think so.
it's also really hard to break someone's heart without wanting to. you never really intend to hurt anyone, but it's better to do it now then wait til later...
-it's much more painful if you wait until later"
and if you do, in the end i bet you that person will say "why are you just telling me now!"
parting is never easy.
why is there always a point in one's life when they think twice? - afraid that you might make the wrong decision and regret it for the rest of your life.
have you ever felt that you've been so obsessed with someone and yet we call it crazy? but we've never realized how stupid we have become until we felt that we've been!!!
and how come after all the shit that we're been through - someone hurts you like no other hurt you've felt before, still you say "i still love him/her!" ...Shit!
sometimes we get confused on whether or not we should listen to our mind or our heart.
-they say that love conquers all ...yeah right!
sometimes, you feel that you love someone, but that person loves someone else. or you fell for your friend but you're too afraid to let it show because you fear rejection.
dialogue in the movie My Best Friend's Wedding...
- "if you love someone, say it... you say it right then... out LOUD... or the moment just passes you by..."
there are some situations when there is someone in your life and you could say that he/she is the one and you think that you really love them. but the time comes in that relationship where you've lost your trust in them. you gave it all to them in the beginning, and found out that this whole time, they've been cheating on you. i know...it HURTS!!!
of course you give them another chance, but you can't help but think that they might do this to you again. but you hear these promises and you just hope for the best.
but then...what if he/she broke these promises the second time around?!!?!?
i don't know...
all i can say is, we do crazy shit for the one we love.
-it's really hard to trust someone again once you've lost it... i guess it just takes time.
what about the situations where you want to break up with someone? but there's something holding you back, like you're afraid of hurting that person but at the same time afraid of hurting yourself and later regretting that you did it.
sometimes, we can't blame ourselves for ending a relationship. other people might think that you are such a horrible person and it was easy for...umm hello... i don't think so.
it's also really hard to break someone's heart without wanting to. you never really intend to hurt anyone, but it's better to do it now then wait til later...
-it's much more painful if you wait until later"
and if you do, in the end i bet you that person will say "why are you just telling me now!"
parting is never easy.
9/16/08
love...
definition of love:
fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.
"...without you, i am complete,
i know ultimately, i am alone,
i can live without you...
you don't make life worth living,
you just add onto the worth of life
that is already worth living...
you don't create my self-esttem,
you only add onto it...
you are not my life,
i have my own...
i love you because it's a decision
i have made on my own...
because you give me space
to pursue my individual choice
and are compassionately attentive
to any threat that i fell...
coz you don't control me or even try to,
you allow me that change that i need
and would not even try to change me..."
fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.
"...without you, i am complete,
i know ultimately, i am alone,
i can live without you...
you don't make life worth living,
you just add onto the worth of life
that is already worth living...
you don't create my self-esttem,
you only add onto it...
you are not my life,
i have my own...
i love you because it's a decision
i have made on my own...
because you give me space
to pursue my individual choice
and are compassionately attentive
to any threat that i fell...
coz you don't control me or even try to,
you allow me that change that i need
and would not even try to change me..."
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